“Abandon the urge to simplify everything, to look for formulas and easy answers, and begin to think multidimensionally, to glory in the mystery and paradoxes of life, not to be dismayed by the multitude of causes and consequences that are inherent in each experience – to appreciate that life is complex.”

M. Scott Peck

Coaching Approach

Mission

I am dedicated to supporting and educating individuals and organisations in navigating the complexities and uncertainties of modern life. I seek to help my clients understand their unique brain wiring, develop self-awareness and gain a deeper appreciation of themselves and their wider eco- systems, in a way that enables meaning-making, and facilitates sustainable behavioural changes with the goal of enhancing optimal functioning, well-being, career and life-satisfaction. 

Approach

I work collaboratively with my clients to holistically facilitate coaching conversations and design creative and innovative life and career strategies. These conversations explore and consider the complexities of each individual situation, while simultaneously striving to seek alignment between the client’s expected outcomes, the system and their personal values.

My approach is eclectic and draws from a wide range of evidence-based theory and practice grounded in Systems, Complexity, Developmental, CBT, Solutions Focused, Mindfulness, ACT, and Positive Psychology methodologies. 

Values

How you benefit

My diverse coaching and commercial experience in the legal, education, family and commercial sectors, assists me in offering a multi-dimensional view and a broader perspective in understanding each client’s unique experience. Similarly, my personal experience of changing careers, emigration, and weathering many challenges, pressures and transitions in my own life, enables me to genuinely empathize and appreciate the feeling of “walking in someone else’s shoes”. Research shows that the rapport created through empathy and a shared understanding enhances perspective taking capacity and enriches the coaching relationship, which can increase goal striving and well-being. 

Story

Personal odyssey

Currently I live in Sydney, though my odyssey began in South Africa, twenty -five years ago, where I qualified as a solicitor. I married young and left my entire family to emigrate to Melbourne, where I knew no-one. I went back to university to convert my law degree to Australian standards and practiced as a commercial solicitor for a few years. A life-changing business opportunity necessitated an urgent move to Sydney three years later at short notice. This decision was one of the turning points in my life as there was a slight complication: I was thirty-one weeks pregnant with twins and only had a small window in which to travel. We took the risk, and I gave birth prematurely at thirty-four weeks. The twins are now thriving young adults. 

Learnings

Though these transitions were painful and difficult, they opened up pathways to self-discovery and enhanced my personal awareness. I developed courage and resilience and learned how the values of acceptance, mindfulness and flexibility could help me to cope with uncertainty. My mindset changed and I became driven to learn more and discover my real purpose in life. Years of learning through specific study, practical experience, life’s trials and tribulations, setbacks, and experimenting with various careers, eventually led to reinventing myself as a coach and finding meaning in my personal and professional life.

Qualifications

Master of Science in Coaching Psychology

University of Sydney

Professional Certified Coach

International Coach Federation

Conversion of Law Degree

University of Melbourne

Bachelor of Laws

University of Witwatersrand, Johannesburg

Bachelor of Arts

University of Witwatersrand, Johannesburg

Licences and Certifications

ADD Coach Academy (ADDCA)

Simply ADHD

Integrative Enneagram Accredited

Certified to administer iEQ9

Emotional Intelligence Certification

Certified to administer Genos EI Assessments

Strengths Profile Accreditation

Certified to administer Strengths Profile 

Mental Toughness Certification

Certified to administer MTQ 48

Hogan Assessment Certification

Certified to administer Hogan Suite
Personality Inventory, Development Survey, Motives, Values, Preferences Inventory,
Hogan 360 Multi-Rater feedback tools

Mental Health First Aid Certificate

Certificate in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Act Mindfully (Russ Harris)

The Art of Developmental Coaching

Coaches Rising

Gottman Couples Therapy Level 1

Relationship Institute Australasia

Coaching with The Enneagram Certificate

The Enneagram in Business

Brain Based Coaching Certificate

Neuroleadership Institute

Certificate in Archetypal Coaching and Matrix Therapies
Certificate in Passion and Purpose Coaching

Evolve Now Mind Institute

Professional Memberships

ICF Membership

International Coach Federation (ICF)
University of Sydney Coaching and Mentoring Association (UCSMA)
Association for Coaching (ACC)
Australian ADHD Professionals Association (AADPA) 

To find out more, book a free 15 minute chat with Melissa